The clothes are better, not louder. A black blouse, one button lower than the version she would have worn five years ago. Jeans that sit right at the waist instead of fighting her. A heel that changes the walk but does not demand a whole announcement.
There is usually one small risk. Red nails wrapped around a paper coffee cup. A bare shoulder when the jacket slips. A skirt that looks plain until she stands up from the table and everyone remembers how much posture can do.
She is not trying to pass for twenty-five. She is making the old, easy version of her harder to quote.